Truth!!! though difficult is that we are beings who have all the time looked around for comfort zones and have stuck to those for dear life whenever we have happened to come across, even by accident. When we are most unaware or shall i say least expecting we get HIT!, by what?! we never realise. By the time we ever do or have ever done, its too late and the facts are laughing on our faces.
We always kept thinking we'd be there forever, our comfort zones would be there forever... a nonexistent and unreal "Forever". Life moves on, people in our lives move on... we realise we are left behind by so many... We tend to think and try to figure... what went wrong and mostly get no answers... getting more and more confused by the hour and days.. every passing moment makes us more and more confused... and we end up getting farther and farther from our friends and our loved ones, hoping to find some place where we'd be settled... settled for good!!! Times come when the feelings of security becomes strong and also when we are most insecure... we are the most confused...
Then all of a sudden, as if enlightened by the Great Gautam Buddha himself, we begin mistrusting our friends and loved ones, creating new boundaries, or rather discovering new ones, to which we keep adding new facts to the 'rights' and 'wrongs' and begin expecting others to adhere to our values and to those boundaries. and getting more and more stubborn and confused in the process of setting the self realised and a bit too many parameters for others and not finding much compliance.
Is it only us who feel this way? Can it be? Is it? For sure it isn't, and we need to realise, this is what our friends and loved ones, yes! those that we have begun to mistrust, are also going through a similar dilemma!
And now that we relate to this, we are more aware of the confusion within us, we are more aware of the confusion amongst our friends and loved ones, more aware of the divides!!! Lets pledge to reach out, and let the others know that they are not alone... We are with them and we trust them as we used to earlier... Show that we care.. Show that we love.. and then NEVER, Yes!, never we'd be alone in our lives... and never fall with no one around around to pick us up.. Never crumble when taken down unexpectedly..
Lets make our lives better!!!
